Naaaa, I think she was being an arse - selfish, downright rude about a present that you guys had put so much into and obviously very materialistic if she just got excited about the other presents - and very rude as I daresay she knows your financial position. It was very unfortunate timing though, as you're not well, if you're like me, when I'm in Beeper Depression my self esteem plummets and I take on the selfishness of other more than I would if I was feeling robust. I have more chance of just flicking it off if I am well.

But as to going to hospital, always err on the side of causion. I've had four stays and they've always helped me - saved my life and helped my mental health.

You sound like you have a very special hubby to treasure. I want one!! lol