I think of every man in sexual terms, and it is a huge barrier to forming normal working relationships with people. Any man I meet for the first time is a threatening penis. Any male family member who tries to hug me is also a threatening penis, because that feels incestuous. Any man I like who gets physically near me is one I must avoid, because he is a penis who wants me, and as a married woman, I cannot afford to respond to this. I know this is all crazy, yet I cannot get past thinking about men's penises when I am in any sort of interpersonal contact with them What can I do?