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Old Nov 03, 2005, 03:42 PM
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I am concerned not with your crushes per se but with the fact that it seems like you might be moving from one strong crush to another, as if you always have to have that strong connection with someone or else something would be missing in your life.

I think it would be a good idea to discuss this with your T and determine if it might be a problem... if there is something in you that you need to fill with these crushes when a better solution would be to find out what you need and try to fill it yourself. If that is the case, then having yourself fulfilled first will lead to a happier life for you and a better chance for solid relationships in the future. Relationships based on "need" are never healthy IMO.

Good luck with this SK
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