KimmyDawn,
Sometimes we learn that boundaries are healthy but not always pleasing.
I am sure that is what is going on with your little man.
I can only send good wishes to the little man and to those who are investing in him and his childhood.
Sometimes we feel like we have not done enough but in essence we have done more then was ever expected.
Keep yourself together...
Keep yourself Safe.
Keep yourself hugged!
((((KD)))