So I'm having a problem with my husband where he wants to be included in everything I do. I mean everything. Its about to drive me crazy. He's mad that I have friends he doesn't know, nor do I want him to know b/c they're my frakin friends first off, secondly they're MY FRIENDS!!! I might just be reading into it too much, but I do enjoy my privacy and to me it feels like he is either trying to be controlling or that he is so insecure with himself he doesn't trust me to have my own friends. Either way I don't like him bothering my friends. I don't bother his friends so I really don't see why he feels the need to bother mine.
I know that he is concerned about me, but still, I really don't want to spend all of my time with him, which is apparently what he thinks I should be doing now. Its really getting on my nerves that NOW he is making an effort to work on things, but when I've tried to work on things in the past I'd hardly even get noticed. His response to that was that he didn't know the extent of my mental issues.

I'm really trying hard to understand where he is coming from but I wish he would understand that changes don't happen over night like he wants them too. Which I have told him many times....