Hi Marjan - what I'm about to say isn't a popular opinion(may get boos) and it may not be an option for you at all. If I was in your shoes had financial stability, but didn't have any luck with finding a stable partner - I would go ahead and have a baby. It's really no different than being like many single mothers out there or a woman who ends up pregnant after a one time encounter. To me it's not fair a woman should be motherless just because she hasn't found a partner. Have you tried legitimate dating sites where they match people based on their traits and goals?