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Originally Posted by WePow
......... All I can say is that when it is time to get help, a person just doesn't have a choice. There is a NEED that is as real as hunger for food or thirst for water. And sadly, for trauma work, once the mind decides it is time to open up and show you all the hidden things - well there isn't much say we have over the matter. The mind has a mind of its own really.........
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hi there, I am sorry it is so hard
I agree with WePow very much
and the flip side is, when you're not ready
to go into the difficult stuff, you don't have to. You can spend a long time -
as long as you need to - just getting to know yr T, developing a sense of safety. It
can come (it even came for me, although it took a long time).
You will not be pushed to go faster than you can go safely. And you shouldn't be allowed to push yourself, either. And then, as WePow says, whenever a time comes and you know internally that something should be spoken, it will come easier.
Dear Eileen, oblivion is noplace to spend your life. I should know. It gets very lonely, sitting at the water's edge.