Thanks for the non-bashing opinion.

She just went to homecoming and apparently didn't do anything. I'm trying to get her to understand that she CAN tell me if she does those things and I'm not going to 'rat her out'. I don't necessarily want her to or feel like it's something she has to do, but I feel like this is just typical teenage crap that just about everyone does and that if she is doing it, she's not talking about it to anyone. I just want her to know that she does have someone in the family who will listen to whatever feelings or questions she has about this stuff and not go overboard, because she knows her dad would if she ever mentioned any of it.