welcome to pc, star!  well the first thought i have is why would you want to give that much power to someone else? your life is yours and you can control your destiny. it is not right that someone made you feel less than a human being. do you have to include that person in your life at all??? if not, i'd give them the boot.  we're here for you and care. i'm sorry you feel so sad right now. 
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle.
The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand
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