dear Purple, one cannot advise you,, having seen it go both ways: refusing to quit led to my downfall; and quitting has left me in poverty. change is so scarey, i used to just flip a coin,, 3 times~! 2 heads i go ahead, and 2 tails, i run.. that worked as well as any intellectual exercise. i'm really sad to see you in such a predicament, and hope you find a way out. Gus