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Originally Posted by lonegael
I think for guys, they see us depresed and they want to comfort. Comfort is touching and hugging, hugging is giving for them which quickly becomes what is for them soemthing that is the most affirming act btween lovong people, sex. No offense to the men I know, but my guy firends have often been kind of like this. They don't have to love to have sex, but if they love, they almost have to have sex to affirm it. Depression screws that whole emotional language up for them in a big way. If I am wrong, come on guys! help me out here!!!!! HUGGS alll!
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I've dated a lot of guys who said they can easily have sex and walk away. I have no idea how they can do that. But maybe it's in the physical design of the body.
A man has sex it's only one part of him involved.
A woman has sex and her whole body is being taken over by someone else.
A man has sex, it never hurts.
A woman has sex, sometimes it hurts.
In real life, I do flirt a lot- but I don't sleep around by choice.
I guess I like the attention more then the actual act. But when I'm depressed I can't even flirt.
Depression ruins everything.