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I have a hard time not reading between the lines, esp. with people that I "know". I think that's good because then they know that I am thinking about them and care, plus I may be able to help them.
With new people I usually take their comments at face value until I get to know them better and have more insight into what may be bothering them.

Excellent thought provoking questions.
Mary Alice