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Old Oct 07, 2010, 04:58 PM
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Hunny

Good on you for doing such great work.

Wow! sounds like you're getting some of your power back

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there is a saying in Alanon THINK, THINK, THINK and then ask someone to help or reading something to help or go to a therapist or whatever. So that is 3X's to focus (ruminate) on a thing and then time to look elsewhere.
I think that's is good advice. I saw a woman on a TV show one time-- she had been burned over something like 75% of her body-- her face is gone.... the interviewer asked her how she copes with such a hardship-- she said she allows herself 15 minutes a day to cry and feel sorry for herself -- then it is time for her to look elsewhere.
I think that's a great way to deal with things.

hats off to you Hunny

not rambling at all
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Thanks for this!
Gr3tta, Hunny