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Oct 07, 2010, 09:26 PM
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dolphin elder
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Location: Upstate New York
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The answers I have for you will lead you to read that no, your not way off track and that we feel your questions are not dumb or any other negative word we could all attach to the word "grounding." However, being dissociaitve we all have to realize that we all have everything we need to heal because we had all that we needed to survive.
In our opinion darkpurplesecrets, these are great questions! Although the answers could and will vary as though we are all the same but yet so totally different. I think, thinking about these questions you posed for any of us at Psych Central can think about and possibly could relate to many as I can also can relate.
I know for a long time we switched and switched and switched so for us we were more grounded inside then when we were "out, running the body." Just my thinking and I too may be out there in my thinking as well but I think in my system we have to be grounded inside in order to "pop out" if there is a job that needs to be doing rather it be a protector or needing a kid or needing a doctor, inside we have to know if abuse is still happening and for us it actually is. For those that don't have to deal with the abuse again and again then I am not sure for them.
I hope this helps dps....
Please be careful in these holiday months, I don't know if you have problems but I can tell you we do, so if yours is anything like ours
BE CAREFUL!
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