Sometimes although people do read whats written you just dont know what to reply. I know I often read stuff and go to reply but then delete it or just don't know what to say because even if I start off with words of encouragement sometimes by the end I am just writing of my angst and it defeats the object. The thing about this place is that by being here and being able to read whats others are going through its helps in that you realise that its not just you that suffering but also a lot of times it can be dispriting as the one abiding factor is that its seems never ending no matter how positive you want to be most of us feel like crap with a few normal moments dropped in. I am sorry to sound no negative