Thanks Sky..

Ozzie, no he just said a friend of his, likely someone from the resturant that he works at. He was really sad when he left. Made me sad, it was weird. I told him that if it came down to choosing i'd likely be choosing the one that i've been with for 4 yrs, and besides he'd just take off again, he agreed.

Before telling me that he asked if I was happy, truely happy.
I don't know.