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Old Oct 08, 2010, 02:56 PM
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Originally Posted by lynn P. View Post
((billi leli)) - sometimes it's okay to have a good cry...it helps release a good deal of pain. But Gus mentions a good point, that it can take a toll on our bodies. There's a fine line between healthy grieving and destructive grieving.

I suspect she wouldn't want you to spend too much time crying for her.
Probably not, but if tears come, I don't want to stuff them anymore. They will make me sick.

If I let it out slowly, it will probably not be bad for me.

Grief is not on a timetable!

Billi
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