(((crew)))well part of it is, how badly did you get burned? sometimes in relationships of any kind there will misunderstandings. so the best way to determine if you cut someone off or try to discuss how you feel is the nature of the offense. in other words many times we do not have to be all or nothing i've learned. however if the offense is way beyond the scope of fairplay, then i would let that person go...so to speak. i've learned that no one has the right to offend me beyond reason. like often times both parties are somewhat at fault. but the other is true too...sometimes we are truly wronged. i don't want ppl in my life that are negative to my spirit. only you can decide in your case. but if you let the person go, move on. easier said than done but why give them rent space in your head? you are torturing yourself when you do and there is no resolution...and they have moved on to the next person. like they are not worth it.
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