Everyone that posted and read
THANK-YOU and all of your comments
made alot of sense. Writting it out and getting people's ideas on this helped alot plus, I know I will put it to good use.
I guess when you Trust with very very personal information, we learn. I know that we will continue to Trust others but not that kind of person anymore.
I try not to Hate cause I know Hate can consume a person and make us sick physically and mentally. I sure don't need anymore sickness.
Thank you guys, Ya'll Rock.....and I so much appreciate telling me what I needed to hear. We owe you in a good positive enriched way!

again,

Crew