Sounds as if the trust has been broken and probably won't ever be earned back,imo. Also even if she doesn't trust you she doesn't have the right to tell you you can't go here or there or hang here or there or see this friend or that. Now lieong is wrong no matter what even if the lieing is in withholding of information. This omission is still a lie especially because the truth then is found out through third party sources and hurts so much worse,and even if that advice came from your mother at 21 you should know better.(Sorry but I really don't like lies) ok anyway I think you and nicole need to have an actual face to face conversation to discuss what you both want with your relationship and set some boundaries to make it healthier for the both of you. With some new boundaries set in place hopefully you two can work on some of the more emotional issues together and go the distance(if that's what you both want) that's all I have at the moment. I'm sure some others will give some other perspective and will help balance things out. Good luck.