Quote:
Originally Posted by serafim_etal
I don't post often, in fact it's very rare. I've been a member for 5 years now and I have 280 posts. Hardly prolific.
I am cautious. I sit back and read but tend to not post unless I feel like I have something truly valuable or important to say. Apparently I am usually wrong about that. There isn't much value or importance in what I have say. Very rarely am I replied to when I post on others threads...it does happen occasionally and I appreciate that, but occasionally doesn't off-set the other things that are happening. Often there are no replies to me...or to the thread at all after I post. The most recent thing is the thread was actually closed after I replied to something. I tried very hard to not be confrontative, or otherwise aggressive in any way when I replied to a specific quote...yet the thread was closed...with the post commenting that the thread was being closed actually attached to my comment, in the middle of the thread...instead of at the end.
This type of thing happens to me over and over. I see other people say they are the "thread killer" and I laugh, knowing that if that were a real title, it would surely go to me. Misperceptions perhaps, but what I am feeling at this time. So I think I will give up on posting anything, at least for a while. No I do not mean I'm leaving altogether or deleting my account...just an indefinite break. Not that it will really even be noticed...after all, I really don't post that much.
|
I don't mean to be judgemental, but I think what you are saying is that you are invisable most of the time, but you kinda like it that way. You are probably like this in your personal life as well. I think it seems safe to you. I am new on here so i could not have been one of the ones who ignored your posts, but even if I were old hat, if you only post every now and then when the mood hits, it probably will get lost in the sea. Sorry to be so blunt, and I am a long way from being able to read people's thoughts, but that is just the way it came across to me. I hope you will post soon and more often. You need to contribute to these groups as much as possible because everyone is different and we all know diversity is important. Thanks for reading this