I feel the same way many times I e-mail my T. Perhaps because her responses are generally short and she tries not to encourage e-mail discussions. I think she was unable or unwilling to set clear boundaries about e-mail. So now it is at the point where I am afraid to e-mail her even if I feel like I need to, because I never know what kind of a response I will get. Sometimes it is nice and I feel better for it, sometimes it results in even more distress.