I too, am passive in almost every area of my life. I have been told it served a good purpose at one time. Well, it does not serve a purpose anymore, but I can't seem to shake it. People walk all over me and I just lie there and whimper. It's like I am just so grateful for them throwing me a crumb every now and then to keep me hanging on to whatever egotistic reason to keep me around. I then get really down on myself. I just need to vent here.