<font color="purple"> I posted a while back about setting boundaries with someone. I also posted that it didn't happen, there was a confrontation instead. Since then things have gotten really crazy. I need to give a brief background before I explain what is happening. The person this was about is a professional, a PhD. After the confrontation she really wigged. Sent out nasty emails to several different people, verbally attacking someone that we know, then flip flopping and appologizing then verbally attacking her again in emails to other people. Our T has said no contact with this person, she appears to be dangerous. It appears that she may have actually used hypnosis over the phone with our host (very invovled explanation why we think that, will just leave it at our T thinks its a real possiblity). This person is now coming into the chat room that we spend time in with different screen names with profiles accussing us of all sorts of things. At this point we are still following the no contact rule our T has made, but I am really at a loss for what to do. We tend to isolate dramatically. The chat room is a place where we can have contact with people without feeling overwhelmed or pressured. It also takes us a very long time to begin to talk in the chat room, so simply going to a new one is a hard prospect. I am really feeling like we can't go to the chat anymore. And I hate it!! It is SO not fair. Any suggestions from anyone?</font>