Hi-

I have to agree with everything that Zen said.

The longer you wait, the more harmful it is to you and your son. The emotional repercussions for your son alone is just cause to leave.

Your husband is controlling, abusive, refuses to take responsibility for his own life, and whether or not your son *sees* his actions every time it occurs, he's learning by example. He may grow up traumatized or believing this type of behavior is acceptable.

Leave him ASAP, have a restraining order placed upon him if needed. He won't be allowed to call or contact you.

Hope that helps-

Kiddo

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