Dear coco de mer

You are best without this man in my opinion he is not telling you truth and is hiding his money from you so that he does not end up in the situation he felt he was in before when he left his marriage which was in debt which there is trouble believing

I think that you do need to have help with your violent streak because that is not a good thing and will only bring you more grief but this man is not open and honest and after 2 years with you contributing 95% and he 5% that is in my opinion ruthless and selfish of him particularly when he is working overtime and still not contributing it is as if he sees you as a free ride and meal ticket I would be angry too and I would be waving him goodbye but first find out if there are defacto laws that award you any kind of settlement when you seperate

Julia