Powermind14

We have never felt this way and do wonder how this would punish your husband when it is your health it impacts upon and your self esteem? It would be interesting to know why you would want to punish your partner

We have heard many many different complaints about gaining weight how uncomfortable it makes people feel physically and emotionally how it affects their mental and emotional state and how they wished they were not carrying it for all of those reasons

There are also other issues if your partner feels jealousy it is probaby not related to your looks at all Jealousy is a much deeper issue an issue of trust and fear of betrayal so that is an issue your partner needs to work with and you also if you feel jealousy

All that being said if by any chance you are a flirt (not saying you are just looking at scenarios) and you attract attention because you actually want it that is a whole different kettle of fish and is something that can lead to payback behaviour and tit for tat which would damage the partners and the relationship

Hoping to talk more about this situation and hoping to support you in any way possible that will lead to a resolution

Heleni