so catwhispers was honest and up front but it could have been taken by others not very supportive. I could be considered a troll cuz of how much I come and go but it is nothing but assumption wouldn't you say? This post on another day would scare me away thinking oh crap (nice words) I've blown it agin. So who's playing games, who's troll's or what ever you want to give a name to I'd be careful.