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Originally Posted by Emotionally Dead
That's great that you've learned so much! Keep it up. As for telling your wife, I think right now it's best not to mention it. I could be wrong, but I feel like YOU need to be more in tune to what is going on with you before she knows anything about it. I know communication and all of that is a good thing to have in a marriage, so some people would disagree with me, but I think that it's best to wait and find out more before pursuing telling her about it. The time will come.
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I agree that communication is crucial in a marriage and we talk about a lot of things. She is struggling to understand my BP and now I am struggling with what could be DID and that may be too much for her. Especially since I can't even take her to meet my therapist for his advice.
I hate keeping her in the dark...but I am still in the dark myself...or at least a very dimly lit room.