((buttrfli42481)) - I'm sorry you're troubled. How old is your daughter and does she stay over night there? Can you speak to your ex about this? It's hard to say whether you should involve CPS - have they ever been in the picture before? Could you speak to who ever organized the custody agreement?

In the meantime, you can teach your daughter to reject his tickling advances, with a strong "NO". I also hate it when adults do the tickling thing unless it's done in front of me. I have never forced my girls to "go give a hug/kiss" to various relatives - I want them to know they have a choice in the matter. If she's old enough, give her full permission to say "NO I don't like this" and "don't touch me". Tell her to tell her father and her father should respect her wishes. I think you should speak with her father and I don't think she should stay over night if he lives there.