well can you all consider counselling? if you want to try to mend fences and the 2 of you work towards a common goal..staying together...then that would be a beneficial start.
BUT..your last reply sounds like you're really unsure of what you want. perhaps some 1 on 1 therapy for you might be the best way to start.
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