Lynn, she is 9 and does have to spend the night over there. That is in the custody arrangement. I have to have an ammendment done if overnights are to be taken away. I know that won't happen by tomorrow night, or this weekend. I try not to talk to my ex, due to fearing his reaction, he was my abuser. CPS has been involved before because his house is dirty. I don't want her going over there until I have more information. I think there is more going on than the tickling because she gets tickled by her papa and loves it. The fact that she was crying while telling me makes me think that it isn't just tickling.
I have been telling her that if she doesn't like what someone is doing to her that it is ok to say she doesn't like it and wants them to stop. However, both her father and her uncle don't pay attention to that. This whole situation is making me sick.
Thank you for your reply.