Jexa- I think I feel that I owe it to T to do as well as I can until I see her next week. Tonight more drama with my daughter, I showed her all her grades, none above a D. But I was able to stay centered, not react, even as she yelled and swore and stormed out of the house. (And returned 5 min later). At the end she even said. "I'm not mad at you. I'm disapointed in ME". And I thought- wait til - tell T. This! I will offer T condolences when I see her next. The obit was public record, so no big concerns there