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Originally Posted by jbug
How do I get my mom to quit telling me what to do? I get ready to do my chores and she tells me to do them as I am doing them. I have told her how much this bothers me and she tells me well I can't see you doing them so I don't know you are doing them. I am not a child I do not need to be told to do my chores. I will do them and get them done. She also tells me how to do my chores as if I don't know how to do them. Yes I make mistakes and may not do them as she does them but they are done. She is driving me nuts and I can't go home because my parents won't let me and I need my wound taken care of twice daily and I can't do it on my own I need someone to do it for me. Home health doesn't come every day just once a week so mom does my wound care. I still need help so have to stay out here. It will be soon that I can go home as my wound is 1 centimeter by 1.3 centimeters.
Jan
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Dear Jan Know how frustrating this is for you with the other messages of yours that we've read over the while Parents tend to think we are always 8 no matter what age or how mature we become
Knowing your mother has this habit must really get your goat because you know every day it is the same thing So sorry for that And if it isn't your mom it's your dad We have real compassion for you and hope you can take some nice deep breaths and release the tension and pressure it creates for you because you don't need it at all
Thinking of you
Heleni