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Old Oct 13, 2010, 07:06 AM
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Originally Posted by phoenix7 View Post
i have a facebook friend who scares me - he hasnt done anythign wrong - he asked if i like to talk dirty and i said no and he said well neither do i.....
and i ... i dont want to talk to him - hes been nice - ...so why dont i want to talk wiht him....he isbeing very friendly thats all........

Phoenix, you can be rude to people who are being rude to you. Not replying is a dignified way of being "rude". You have the right to protect yourself and when you are protecting yourself it really isn't being rude.

He's being friendly? No, he is looking for some "action" that many people would not be interested in and the way that he was acting was very triggering for you. I don't blame you at all for not wanting to talk to him. Why aren't you defriending him?
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