Oh man, that is horrible, I wish I could say something, but the death of a loved one, especially a child is so tragic, and I am so very sorry to hear this, wish I could say something to bring comfort.
Please feel free to come here and chat with us, this place has so many warm, caring, and supportive people.
We have someone that a few years ago lost their child and it is probably the greatest tragedies, I have only one kid, he is 17 y.o. and I do not know if I would ever be able to survive such lost, but we never know where life and time will bring us.
I am sending you many hugs, that is all I can do I guess, but my heart feels for you and hope you will come here to talk about what ever you are feeling.

Again, so sorry to hear of your loss

Sincerely,
" darkeyes"

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON