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Oct 14, 2010, 01:22 AM
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Member Since: Aug 2010
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Phoenix, anything that makes you question, makes you uncomfortable or insecure, you could not possibly over react to, because you need to respond to your feelings. The lack of trust and the skepticism you are displaying are normal and perfectly ok. Don't worry whether you are over-reacting, you don't owe anyone anything except yourself. believe in your gut feelings, don't apologize for who you are, and know that you are the most important person in any equation.
I know what its like to question oneself, if we are somehow subconsciously inviting behaviors or actions.
The answer is no we are not- but we are still learning what is acceptable and what isn't. What I thought 'acceptable' at age 3 I certainly know now is not. You are not alone, and you are not a deviant magnet. You need only believe that you deserve the respect that we often believed reserved only for others, and respect you will receive. 
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