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Originally Posted by scooter62487
For those of you who think I was talking about someone on here I wasn't. I was talking about personal incident that has recently happened in my relationship and the lack of communication that took place which caused the whole thing. Apparently people who read my post thought I was talking abou someone else on here when in all actuallity I didn't even know that person existed on here. Even if I did I would never write something about someone that is on this site. If I have a problem with them I would contact them and/or involve a moderator depending on wether I thought they were needed.
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I did not read anything in anyone's responses to your post that indicated that anyone thought you were talking about someone on this forum. That kind of thinking could be construed as drama.
As far as "drama" is concerned, the only single thing you need to know about drama is how to disentangle yourself from it. You need not judge others if they are gossiping, "or don't know what they are talking about". What someone else says is on their shoulders! What is important is that your side of the street is clean. Take your focus off of other people, and be concerned with your own feelings. Are you taking care of your business? Are you a nice, decent human being? Do you help others when asked for advice? There are a ton of things you could be doing to make the world a better place!
Gossip and drama have been around since the beginning of time. And they are not going anywhere real soon. So avoid those who are Toxic and enjoy life! You deserve it! Hugs, Laurie