i dont think slapping a child is automatically childabuse or that you're a bad parent ive you've slapped your kid when it was young BUT that doesnt mean there couldnt have been a better way to handle those situations? Esp if slapping becomes a regular thing...

And i dont think you'll like me very much for saying this gabi but to me it sounds like you only want to hear people validate your own beliefs about slapping... You're kinda rude to people who think different. If you dont want to hear those things imho you shouldnt have asked this question...
You knew beforehand it would get mixed reactions.