True friends will stick beside you no matter what.I have had spits at friends, and them with me-but if we were meant to last that friendship-we did. I didnt survive all, but I did survive a lot. Sounds like these girls really are just jealous. And that's okay- People get jealous of me and I just remind them-I dont always have rainbows n butterfies in my life-no need to be jealous. Teenagers are cruel-my daughter will have to deal with this in about 4 yrs and it scares me cuz I waas picked on A LOT. But i aways try to remember that every1 thinks differently and for that-they may see something we do not. So maybe u are a little selfish-we all can be this way-especially if you're a teenager-BUT- try to realize why they say that?! Who was really being selfish?! A good friend of mine just called me selfish a few weeks ago-I havent spoken to him since-I look back at the incident and think that i was a little selfish-but on that hand I was merely sticking up for him and he backstabbed me very badly by telling me this. I was only speaking for him-not me!He knew this but was trying to impress some other people who dont much care for me. I look at it this way-I wasted my breathe on u once-I will NOT do this again for you! You are not a true friend by talking to me like that or treating me like that. I wish the best for you and want you to remember something-when someone knows they have your emotions-they tare u up. However, when u walk by ur ex-friend and ex-bf-smiling will get them to think! Keep up this response of smiling and laughing to urself bout the situation and evrything WILL get better! After all, laughter is the best medicine and those who hurt you will feel as tho they failed-which will make them hurt moer than u! Good Luck!!!!!!