(((DPS)))
your words have helped us in so many ways. The emotions that we feel inside are at time so much like whirelpool. At times we don't like talking about out bio-parents for the same reason. But it did help us to start to let go of them by understanding that it was their choice to repeat the abuse instead of letting it go.
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When we researched our parents we found out that our bio father was abused as a child. The ironic thing is that our parents lived down the street from each other. So my bio-mother was abused by the same people. Like most times it was not discussed and my grandmother did not acknowledge it or know about it until my bio-mother was an adoult. Only she knows and she took that to the after life with her.
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The sins of the father or mother do come to rest on the children for when they do not acknowledge or choice to change their action then they teach their children to live by the same rules. My grandmother may not have done right by my mother but she did try to help us. What really happened between these to people only they know but to us our grandmother was a life line.
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It is hard to let go of the fear and the pain that these people tought us to feel. We to have cried a river of tears for this very reason.
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Just know that we hear and understand.
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson .gif "Boy Angel")
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