Sannah , ive second guessed that conversation so many times - i dont know ... he was fairly persistant about a photo - i siad oh i only use this for games and i say hi to anyone that says hi to me

I said i liked the kitty photo and made a joke about not putting a photo up as i didnt want to scare anyone - he said somethign like well ahve you vistied my proofile and seen my photo? i said no i dont visit peoples profiles - he asked again about a photo and i said hey i already said i like the kitty - and he said well its only fair youve seen my photo and its not for everyone its for me - - and its not like im asking for nude photos of you ...

i guess that made me triggery - but maybe thats how guys talk to girls? did he think i was flirting wiht him when i joked about my photo - he seems to be on there a lot now when im on and i dont like it but hes never said anything bad outright ..
the dirty talk was somthing like.... me in black him in blue

Hi X
HI
how are you
good and you?
do you like to talk dirty?
NO
then neither do i

then the conversation was a normal one about weather and such and he had told me the first time we talked that he had met a woman online and she had turned out to be married and he was heart broken and i had tried to be supportive..... maybe that gave him the wrong impression....

sassyseattle - i agree about the respect thing...sighs.....its like i have to be respectful to him ...even if i dont feel right about it - it makes me feel sick inside now - but he didnt actually say anythign wrong didhe...thats why i think im over reacting...... its close to the anniv of the attack that gave me PTSD and im hyper vigilent and double guessing everything

Damn ! i feel like im drowning!!!!

why cant i just pretend i didnt see it .... but i cant