Hi enajmil, welcome to Psych Central!
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I just want to be okay about things and not feel disappointed when for example I see they're facebooking each other to call, to give words of affection, etc. but they never do that on my facebook page (although I'm constantly reaching out first to them all the time). There are just bonds created that I can't penetrate and I feel like my role now has been that they still love me as a friend but I'm being treated like an acquaintance.
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Just speculating here, really, but could they be feeling that you're asking them for something they aren't prepared to give you?
Just for a hypothetical example: if you were to ask them something like, "Help me feel better about myself," they might decide they had enough on their plates trying to feel better about themselves, didn't feel as if they could do anything for you, and would rather you hadn't asked.
Make any sense?