hi sakura  , your bf cannot differentiate between real and unreal. telling him it's not real may not compute in his head. the delusional world to him is as real as his real world.
my ex-husband is paranoid schiz. i caretook him last year. his pdoc gave me the advice above, so i'm sharing it with you. others may have another opinion.
i came to this site originally for support as his caregiver. i received wonderful support. i am sure you will too. you might want to post in "relationships" forum too so more ppl will review your post.
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