You are a wonderful person for wanting to give this man you love all you have. But I believe that you have given too much. I think it's probably time to exit this relationship and explain that you want to look at this not as his wife, but just as a friend. Explain that a separation WILL NOT BE the end of the rope for the both of you, it will be a time when you will get yourself together and he will get himself together. He can call you and tell you his problems, but until he learns that marriage is a two-way street, then you two cannot have a successful marital life together. This is coming from the mouth of an observer, not a professional of any kind, but this is what I believe will work for you. You need to take some time out for YOU and deal with your own problems now. You will not be a bad person for putting the hold button on this relationship. You are here to take care of yourself FIRST, because without taking care of yourself, how can you take care of others?

ranzi

i'm gonna get free