Daytimedreamer, the good, like the bad, has to come from somewhere. We have a tendency to focus on the bad sides of people as the "real" colors of a person, when actually the good side that we all ususally show are just as real. Problem is that we buy into the disney-inspired idea that we can be these one dimensional oversimplified characters who are only good, do only good, never get mad and never cause anyone else pain, or we are totally evil.

It's OK to get mad, get careless, etc. as long as you warn us, apologize if someone feels hurt, etc. . I for one have been a little off recently and my inner censor has not been doing his job, so I have written stuff that has been a wee bit, well, wacked. Yep, that's the real me, but so is the more measured, careful person who usually is on the site. I assure you, if you get upset, as long as you can warn us or realize what's happened, people will realize the same is happeing. That's why we are all here. HUGGGGGSSSSS!!!!!!!!