so nothing happened between him and either of the girls. they both slept with this friend. they also stole his laptop since he and his friend were too drunk to notice when they left. things are a bit better between us since it happened. i still believe that if we can both grow and work together this marraige has the capacity to get so much better than it was, but i am still so afraid he will withdraw once this current friend leaves. i guess its better to hold on to the hope but it hurts so much more when it breaks.