thanks, fuzzy. Still working on disentangling "their stuff" from "my stuff".
A further email from the hospital - at least I now have a phone no for the person who is coordinating it now. The person I have agreed to speak to about the decision not to give me any support is away on annual leave till next Tuesday.
I'm going to aim to go to the hospital tomeet again with one of the drs - not sure yet whether it will be the one I saw or the consultant. My pastor's wife offered to go with me to support me, and taht makes it feel possible.
C