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Please be considerate of the PC member's feelings when you reply to a post. I have had a reply to one of my posts and read a reply to someone else's post telling me and the other person to "suck it up" and "to get over it". This is inconsiderate. My doctor told me in one of my latest visits that if it bothers me no matter how small it may be but if it bothers me and causes me mental distress, it is a problem and must be addressed. He told my husband not to tell me "to get over it, it's nothing to worry about" or that I am silly to be worrying about it. My doctor said this makes the problem worse. He said I have to learn to change the things I can and to adapt to the things I can't. He is, also, giving me meds.
Please think before you reply to a post. If you don't have something positive to say or helpful or just letting the person know you understand, don't reply. Remember we are all having difficulties and we are here for support and to support, not ridicule someone or hurt their feelings.
I might be out of line but I had to get that off my chest. I brushed it off when it happened to one of my posts, but it really bothered me when it happened to someone else.
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