Phoenix, it isn't respectful to say the nude photo thing. If someone said that to me IRL I would blush. Him asking you if you like to talk dirty says A LOT about what kind of person that he is. I would not befriend anyone who asked me this question. It just isn't respectful.

I don't say "hi" to everyone who says hi to me. When I am walking down the street in an area where strangers don't talk to others I ignore most men who say "hi" to me. I don't have to automatically meet the needs of anyone. I can chose whose needs I meet and part of that decision is based on my needs too. You don't have to treat yourself as an open book that must meet anyone's needs at any time.

Please keep us posted on this?